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Igniting a Romance When You’re Past 40

parking a romance with your partner when you're over 40 can be daunting. Whether your spouse is many years your junior, forty-something, or much older, she will have certain needs. She will desire ongoing attention, occasional romantic gestures, stimulating conversations, shared interests, exciting adventures, and much more. The question becomes how to meet

7 Things to Motivate You to Get Off the Couch

e gentlemen of a certain age can probably think up thousands of excuses to get out of exercising. Some of my favorite examples are as follows: "I’m swamped with work."   "I try to eat healthy foods; isn't that enough?"   "I’m happily married, and I don’t need to impress my spouse by trying to look like Mr. Universe."  

10 Places to Go When You are Over 40

e’ve all seen the guy at the bar or club who’s significantly older than everyone else, and none of us want to be him. If you’re 40 or older, though, you’re approaching the danger zone. In addition to sticking out like a sore – and rather pathetic – thumb, hanging out places where everyone’s at least a decade younger than you isn’t the best wa

What You Need to Know After 40 to be Successful in Dating

f you haven’t been in the dating game recently, you might not recognize it. Most men over 40 find today’s dating world, once a familiar place, turned topsy-turvy and strangely skewed. What’s a guy to do? Look at figures, of course, but put down the binoculars because we mean numeric figures. When anything seems unfamiliar and confusing, you can grab ho